Stress, Success, and Your Attitude

By Don Joseph Goewey

Science divides “stress” into two parts: a stressor and stress. It defines a stressor as any kind of a demand that life imposes. It can be another task that gets added to your to-do list, or a traffic jam or a difficult boss. Stressors are relative:  The same stressor that ruins my day may not bother you at all, and vice-versa.

Science defines stress as the appraisal that this demand is something that must be addressed, together with the perception that the demand overwhelms your resources.  

Most people relate to the term “resources” as something external. It’s things like time, money, equipment or the support of other people. Add weather, war and the economy to this list and you have the elements of what can be defined as The World. The World is everything in life you don’t completely control.  Meaning there is always some problem with money, time, computers, the economy and especially people that mess with your perfect plan.
 
Evolution or the Universe or whatever you call it gave you one resource over which you have absolute control in this world: your attitude.  Attitude is everything; it’s all your need . It is the essence of your spiritual nature and the sole means by which you control your destiny.  Fail to direct your attitude and you can be sure you will influence little else on this planet. The great psychiatrist Karl Menninger, who founded the Menninger Institute, said “attitude is more important than facts.” Viktor Frankl asserted that it is the only thing that could make an inner triumph of something as horrible as Auschwitz.  Neuroscience now defines attitude as “neuroplastic,” which means it can rewire your brain to lead with creative intelligence instead of fight, flight or freeze.

Fundamentally, stress represents you losing touch with your greatest resource:  the power of attitude. Building the attitude that gives you the inner resources to deal with any kind of stressor, regardless of circumstances, is the key to success in life.

Neuroscience has discovered that the most powerful attitude we can mobilize is a dynamically peaceful attitude.  It’s the attitude through which we face life’s challenges without fear.  Some people think peace, especially in business or politics, means losing your edge or becoming complacent.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  Set aside a few moments to write down in one or two words phrases your experience when you are at the top of your game. Identify your internal experience when you’re in the flow, in the zone, running on all cylinders, making things happen.

The qualities that are present in you at such times are the same qualities attributed to peace. Peak performance is a mystical experience.  I challenge you to spend the entire day choosing to be at peace, regardless of circumstances.  See what happens to your mind, your brain function, your level of energy, to the way you relate to others and how you feel about yourself and what you achieved at the end of the day.


One Response to “Stress, Success, and Your Attitude”

  1. Jogesh says:

    Really motivational

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