‘Jeff Justice, CSP’

 

What Do You Say When You Talk To Yourself…?

Friday, April 30th, 2010

By Jeff Justice, CSP

Do you talk to yourself? A little voice inside your head just answered, “Yeah, I talk to myself all the time” or “No, I don’t talk to myself.” And if the voice told you no, it probably followed with, “You gotta be nuts to talk to yourself! Maybe others do, but not me.”

As humans, talking to ourselves is how we process information and make decisions. Psychiatrists say if we don’t talk to ourselves, we need to be talking to them! We cause stress sometimes by what we say when we talk to ourselves. Negative self-talk is harmful when we tell ourselves something we would resent someone else saying to us.
I am not a psychiatrist — I don’t even play one on TV. But here is a sound piece of mental health advice: STOP DOING THAT! Stop. Here’s a story: (more…)

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Use Humor to Enhance Creativity…

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

By Jeff Justice, CPS

According to Dr. Warren Fry of the University of Chicago, one benefit oflaughter is that it produces an endorphin-like effect in your body — endorphins are your body’s natural painkillers, and laughter causes your body to mimic their pain-relieving impact. Research shows laughter may increase your T-cell count for fighting disease. 

Think about dis-ease being the opposite of ease.  Your brain and your bodyrespond to your mental state in complex ways.  For instance, when researchers have measured the chemical composition of tears produced by joy and  laughter, they have found their makeup is different from tears of sorrow and pain.  There’s more to tears than just salt water! 

So what does this have to do with creativity?  When you are under a deadline, stress is a creativity killer.  In such circumstances, have you ever said, “Let’s get serious”?  I don’t believe “serious” is the best environment for creativity to flourish.  I encourage people to loosen up by having fun, because the best thinking often flows out of a more spontaneous, tension-free environment.  (more…)

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Anatomy of a Joke

Sunday, February 28th, 2010

By Jeff Justice

“My wife and I are both 53 this year. Been thinking about having one more kid. Now Diane says, ‘Maybe we should wait a few more years.’”

“Oh Yeah, Honey! There’s a real money saver. This way we can all be in diapers at the same time!”

“Let’s just back the truck up to Sam’s and get that family pack!”

The set up (which is everything that comes before the punch line) starts with a true statement, we are both fifty three. (more…)

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Raise Your Hand If You Have Stress In Your Life

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

By Jeff Justice, CSP

Raise your hand if you have stress in your life. If you haven’t raised your hand by now, it must be because you feel too stressed out to do even that. Maybe you raised both hands. If so, you already understand part of the program — you laughed (at least inside) when you did it. If you’re so stressed that you’re curled up in the fetal position under your chair and sucking your thumb, I won’t ask you to raise your hand — just wiggle a foot so I know you’re paying attention.

Stress is actually something that we need in our lives. Most of us need the stress of a deadline to get a project done. Others need it to get a project started. The stress of paying my bills makes me get out of bed and go to work every day. If I didn’t have bills (or something else to motivate me), I could sleep till the crack of noon and wake up just in time to take my afternoon nap. We all need “productive stress” to generate results. As a side benefit, we gain a sense of accomplishment, fulfillment and purpose.

So stress is not really the problem. What you and I don’t need is distress.  That’s the negative side of stress. Sometimes distress comes from outside sources in our environment: where we work or live, the people we deal with, the situations of life. But sometimes, distress comes from inside sources that are much more under our own control.
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Class Clown

Thursday, December 31st, 2009

By Jeff Justice, CSP

For years, I’ve earned my living making people laugh, but I was funny long before I did it for money.

As a kid, I was always the class clown. Somehow, I instinctively understood the power of humor — that if I said something funny in class and it made my teacher laugh, I wouldn’t get in trouble. Of course, if she didn’t laugh, I got a chance to rehearse and try it again on the Principal. If I didn’t get a laugh there, I got to do it again in his office for my parents. Sometimes I did two or three shows a day…sometimes even an after-school matinee!
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How To Hone Your Funny Bone

Tuesday, November 24th, 2009

By Jeff Justice, CSP

  1. Start slowly.  Observe and listen for funny work-related anecdotes or incidents.  Write down those you want to remember and which can be tools at an appropriate occasion in the future.
  2. Begin reading books of appropriate humor collections and write down those quotes, stories, or jokes that apply to you or your work situation.
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7 Habits of Highly Funny Project Managers

Saturday, October 31st, 2009

By Jeff Justice, CSP

Why are there people who are funnier than the rest of us? What makes them different?  Oh sure, some people are just born funny.  Some just have a natural way of saying things that’s funny. Some may look funny while others talk funny.

After twenty plus years of teaching normal business people how to be funny(ier) I’ve concluded that the “Highly Funny People (Project Managers included)” all share the same habits, which are learnable by anyone,…even you.

• They have the ability and are willing to laugh at themselves. Their stories show how they failed but coped with it through laughter.  They teach others by laughing at their own mistakes.
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TWENTY Stress Reducers

Wednesday, September 30th, 2009

By Jeff Justice, CSP

  1. Laugh at yourself. 
For good health, laugh at least ten times a day and five of those should be at yourself.
  2. Realize that most events in our personal and business lives will fall somewhere on a continuum between very positive and very negative. Find your balance.
  3. Do some stretching and breathing exercises every few hours.
Being trapped behind a desk or the wheel of a car all day can make the body stiff. Use deep breathing from your stomach to relax you and stretching to loosen the muscles and joints.
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Stress Busters

Monday, August 31st, 2009

By Jeff Justice, CSP

SEVEN Instant Stress Busters:

  1. The Bart Simpson Maneuver
    See your situation as your favorite sitcom or cartoon character would handle it.
  2. Reframing
    Use humor to turn a negative into a positive.
  3. Flow changers
    If you’re given lemons make lemonade.
  4. Internal humor
    Treat them like they just left a mental institution. Lots of understanding.
  5. Take a humor break
    Go listen to a funny tape or read something that makes you laugh
  6. Joke hotline
    Form a group you can call when you’re stressed out to hear a quick joke and pick your spirits up.
  7. Don’t tighten up, lighten up!
    Look for the funny side of life.
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Laughing in the Face of Stress

Saturday, August 1st, 2009

By Jeff Justice, CSP

To fight the daily onslaught of stress in your life, I suggest that you use your sense of humor. Nothing relaxes and refreshes the body like a good hearty laugh. It makes you feel good. There are no bad side effects and it’s non-fattening. The ability to take your job seriously and yourself lightly will go a long way in the battle against stress.

From a psychological point of view, work is nothing but organized stress, so unless you’re the chief tester for Lazy-Boy chairs, your job is where you feel life pressing down on you most heavily. This is where you need to lighten up.

Is stress that bad for you? Dr. Robert S. Eliot, a cardiologist who heads the Institute of Stress Medicine in Scottsdale, Ariz., estimates that as many as 500,000 Americans die each year from stress-related heart conditions alone.
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