‘Don Goewey’

 

Your Greatest Power

Wednesday, June 30th, 2010

By Don Goewey

Thoughts are your greatest power.  You are what you think you are.  See for yourself.  Spend the day tracking every anxious, fearful, stressful thought you think.  Bring these thoughts into simple awareness.  Observe the emotion each carries. Look at the picture it paints that becomes the world you see. 

It’s the weight on your heart produced by the thought I’m not going to make it that can suddenly diffuse into cold fear, immobilizing you completely.  A moment later the fear can sink into depression that casts a shadow over your life.  The world you will see through this thought-generated-lens will feel unsafe, unkind and seem  hell bent on crushing your dreams. 

The term we give this mind-made picture is “reality.”  It is not some fixed reality.  It is a representation of your own state of mind.

Three out of four of us are struggling with stress and anxiety.  When stress and anxiety are chronic, the brain becomes fear conditioned and wires for fight or flight.  We see life through the eyes of our primitive brain, leading us to believe that we are alone, lost and constantly pursued by predators.  When this part of the brain takes charge, life becomes a nightmare.  It all begins in thought, as Robert Sapolsky of  Stanford University states: (more…)

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The Power To Move Mountains

Monday, May 31st, 2010

By Don Goewey

All of the great spiritual masters see the same enormous capacity in each and every one of us.  The Buddha says that your mind is naturally illuminated. Jesus says you are the light of the world.  Muhammad says heaven is nearer to any of you than the strap of your shoe.
  
 All the sages tell us that if you read between the lines of the story that anxiety and stress script, you begin to discern the voice of sanity called peace, quieting, focusing and unifying your mind.  They point to peace as the foundation from which a natural state of joy arises to express and extend the creative force in you that can achieve anything.
 
 They say behind all the conditions of poor health, broken hearts and personal failure there is a power inside that can “move mountains” on the outside, regardless of circumstances.

 So why isn’t this usual experience?  What happened?
 
 Fear is what happened.

 ”Our deepest fear,” states Marianne Williamson in A Return to Love, “is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.”
  
 The Trappist monk Thomas Merton echoes that sentiment: “Perhaps I am stronger than I think,” he wrote. “Perhaps I am even afraid of my strength and turn it against myself, thus making myself weak. . . . Perhaps I am most afraid of the strength of God in me.”
 
 ”Is a candle meant to be put under a bushel, or under a bed, and not to be set on a candlestick?”  Jesus asked.  Of course, we all know the answer.  So what’s the problem? (more…)

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The Whole of You (That Transcends The Fragments)

Friday, April 30th, 2010

By Don Goewey

There are four qualities I have identified in my book, Mystic Cool, that together form a powerful attitude that can rewire your brain for an immunity to stress. One of the four qualities is wholeness.  Wholeness is the enduring sense of who and what you are that transcends the fragmentation stress seems to make of us .

How do we transcend the fragmentation that demands and pressures produce? How do we transcend the split mind that fear causes and the threatening world fear perceives that won’t let us rest or feel safe? How do we get above the shattering effect of the critical voice that harps on our faults and mistakes and says we’re never good enough?  The answer is simple. It is so simple, we think it’s silly.  At least until we try it. 

The experience of yourself as whole comes from loving yourself exactly as you are. It is loving life just the way it is, even if you think life sucks at the moment.   Wholeness is the total acceptance of everything in you and around exactly as it is, right here, right now. (more…)

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Ending Stress Is In The Palm Of Your Hand

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

By Don Goewey

Seventy-eight percent of Americans were already struggling with stress when the economy took a nose dive.  Now stress seems to be completely out of control.  You might think it ridiculous or even insulting if a neuroscientist were to tell you that the one thing you actually control inside as you face the world outside is your level of stress.  It’ true and it is a truth that can set you free.

Stress is happening in you far more than to you.  Stress is fear.  Biologically, it takes some form of fear for the brain to trigger a stress reaction.  For modern human beings, the most prevalent form of fear triggering stress reactions is psychological fear.  Psychological fear is the way anxious, pessimistic, and worried thinking turns into wild and even destructive emotions that perceive a world out to crush you, sending the body into an uproar. We human beings are capable of generating all sorts of stressful events purely in our heads, with nearly all of it generated by mere thoughts.  This is what Mark Twain illuminated when he said: My life has been as series of terrible calamities, some of which actually happened. (more…)

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Stress, Success, and Your Attitude

Sunday, February 28th, 2010

By Don Joseph Goewey

Science divides “stress” into two parts: a stressor and stress. It defines a stressor as any kind of a demand that life imposes. It can be another task that gets added to your to-do list, or a traffic jam or a difficult boss. Stressors are relative:  The same stressor that ruins my day may not bother you at all, and vice-versa.

Science defines stress as the appraisal that this demand is something that must be addressed, together with the perception that the demand overwhelms your resources.   (more…)

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Mind Over Madness

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

From OUTSIDE Magazine, January 2010

How to beat stress by rebuilding your brain

by KATE SIBER

On a recent afternoon, I was staring down nine deadlines, managing an infuriating case of tendinitis, and arranging care for an ill family member. But there I was, staring at clouds out my office window and plotting my evening run. Procrastinating? No. I was busy rewiring my brain.

As numerous studies have shown over the past decade, it’s possible to increase blood flow

to certain regions of your gray matter, create new neurons, and strengthen neural pathways just by directing your thoughts. Neuroplasticity, as this phenomenon is called, has been used to treat obsessive-compulsive disorder, depression, even dyslexia. Now physicians and therapists have begun developing mental exercises to alleviate a more widespread affliction: stress.

Being a textbook stress case – stomach aches, a fidgety Elvis leg – I looked up a leader in the field, Don Goewey. The former executive director of the International Center for Attitudinal Healing and author of 2009’s Mystic Cool, Goewey has helped chronically ill patients, families of returning soldiers, and CEOs train their brains to transcend stress. I figured he could handle me.
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Creativity And The Critical Voice

Thursday, December 31st, 2009

By Don Goewey

No one gets to the end of a creative process without slaying the dragon. The dragon is the critical voice in your head that says your work is no good. It says your effort is useless. It looks on a mistake and says you are worthless, devoid of brilliance.

If you cannot look that dragon straight in the eye, tell it to go to hell and proceed forward with the next step, the next sentence, the next brush stroke, your vision is lost. It will be swallowed hole. Nothing will come of the goal you once held with resolve and enthusiasm.

There is no getting around it. It takes courage to create. Success sometimes involves making a ton of mistakes and still coming back to try again. If one does that, then he or she will climb higher. It’s the law. Thomas Edison said, “Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time. The law is this: If you don’t give up you win. You reach the summit.
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The Magnificent Ascent Of Which You Are A Part

Tuesday, November 24th, 2009

by Don Joseph Goewey

I once spent a glorious week in the Dordogne Valley in France, a place of pastoral splendor that is also one of the archaeological wonders of the world. As I drove into town, I passed a team of paleontologists digging in the ground, searching for the remains of our ancestors’ miraculous rise from near extinction to preeminence. Incredibly, 60,000 years ago, the total number of human beings on the planet had shrunk to less than 2,000. Half of that number traveled north across arid African savannahs and deserts into the bitter cold landscape of Europe. A small splinter group settled in the Dordogne and made one of the last stands for the human race. Against all odds, these people flourished.
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Don Goewey’s Book “Mystic Cool” makes Amazon’s Top 100 List

Monday, November 16th, 2009

PDUs2Go author Don Joseph Goewey’s book, “Mystic Cool”, made Amazon’s Top 100 list for Stress Management and for Neuropsychology.  Congratulations Don!

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Can People Under Pressure Sustain Highly Creative Levels of Performance For Long Periods And Not Burn-Out?

Saturday, October 31st, 2009

By Don Goewey

Once I was asked by a senior executive: Can people work ten hours a day, five and sometimes six days a week for extended periods of time and sustain high levels of creative performance without burning out? She was pushing her team very hard to meet a deadline for a high stakes project and the team was frayed by the stress they were experiencing.

The answer to this question is yes.  You don’t have to be a corporate athlete to sustain high performance. Do these simple things and you will be able to sustain peak performance, even in challenging situations.
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